I have to take a deep breath before writing this, hence LOVE, aha yes it is, LOVE. Have you been in love? Have you been hurt because of this LOVE thing? Geeez there is so much, let me rephrase it "SO MUCH" topic,fiddles and faddles in the internet regarding these deep interstate-ultra-mega phenomenon perplex yet profound called LOVE. Sh*t, as much as i want, i really don't prefer writing these topics here. I feel like i am writing my own slambook or something or answering, "who is your first kiss"?- my mom (yes all of us answered that) (Madedeadz ung hindi :) Who is your first Love? then all of us would humbly answer, God. Right? And most of the time honestly i enjoy answering, "What is your motto in life?". Its a tricky question, you can either answer it in a humane approach or sometimes on a humble approach, "TIME IS GOLD, SO NOBODY IS PERFECT" hmmmm or maybe sneaking on the next page because maybe some of your friends had already finish answering their slambook so you could peak into their mottos. So these were the times where you start developing your emotional awareness, when you start to value the emotional being that you are and what you are, thus i am not saying it will all start on a slambook. At a very young age we already have that feeling, the sense of being loved, valued and cared. We aren't that much aware of it because on a young stage these sensible feelings are being spoon-fed by our family, our mother and father, sisters and brothers, friends and "LOVERS"? that was sooner than i expected :) But from the moment you start sharing it, or giving it, you will become wiser, more wiser. There is an effective emotion that will certainly alarm your senses, when to give and how to receive.
FAMILY, What is a family? On my own perspective view, This is the initial lineage were ones present personality reflect. This is your sanctuary where you are being nurtured and cultivated by good aspects and moral values. It is where you can be imperfect and still be loved. We have to bring forth in our mind that these our so called family, is the one responsible for what we are today, what you are today and wherever you are right now. LOVE is already here.
LIFE. What is life? What is your life all about? How is your life now? How do you deal with your daily life? Is your life good? How terrible is your life now? Is your life filled with over-flowing complications? You may have some of these questions bothering you right now. And how are these connected to love if love is all about giving, caring, sharing or the other way around? "INDIVIDUALITY". How much do you love yourself? How much do you pay attention to yourself? How much are you willing to sacrifice just to satisfy yourself? How much can you trust yourself? How's the relationship between you and your soul? Yes, everyone is saying that you must learn to love yourself first before sharing it, really it was design that way, because you won't feel that love to others if you don't love yourself in the first place,right? Its natural. It's nothing new under the sun. Life has a lot to do with love. It is a decisive, substantial ingredient. Love won't exist without it.
SOCIETY is in a constant motion. What is the connection between society and Love? You will meet people, bond with trends influencing yourself and tasting colors that blends between the you and me. This is an introduction to the outer glaze of human connection, where society jives along your misguided freshly path towards a bona fide social interaction. It plays a big role. How will you accept the society or how will you be accepted by the society. The connection between the outside world and yourself. There are only two things, either, you will be loved or hated because of your actions.
DELIGHTFULNESS. Anyone who feels loved, valued or cared is delighted. There is an apperceive tenderness of soothe and joy when you are in love.(nakanaman) It gives the soul a vibrant positivity of flowing bold ideas. Love is pleasant, charming, dandy, alluring, refreshing, satisfying and everything. Such this could offer us all those wonderful things. (it really feels like im writing like a kid) How sweet it is to feel loved. How colorful your life would be if your existence is bountiful with it. Who doesn't want to be loved?
SADNESS. If love is abundant, absolutely there is pain, sorrows or tears, bitterness on so on. When you lost someone, when someone just left you, when someone didn't give back the love you deserve. How will these situations affect your personality? How will you handle grief? How will you face a crowded room full of expectations? A simple question resides on HOW? Every little bit of it is HOW.
ACCEPTANCE. Nothing more nothing less. It is the hardest part. YEZZER it is.
CHOICES. From the famous author Paul Arden. There is no such thing as "wrong decision". Life is all about decisions. Whatever decision you make is the only one you could make, otherwise you would make a different one. Everything we do we choose. So what is there to regret? You are the person you choose to be.
LEARN-EDUCATE. So now we have to feed our mind. This is part of LIFE, growing as an INDIVIDUAL, full of LOVE and DELIGHTNESS, ACCEPTING grief and SADNESS, CHOOSING and DECIDING, and LEARNING from the parable of this SOCIETY.
So what is LOVE There will always be questions surrounding this prominent high rise or the other way rubbish and gibberish word LOVE. It'll never end. It is infinite, it is loyal, it is betrayal, it is greedy-selfish, it is generously-abundant.
So how can you tell a person that you love her/him so much?
Its easy, ill start it, by saying I LOVE YOU!, to define, you will always be the center of my being, where my soul and mind had brought me, to cherish the chance of defining my forever. i want you to be happy not to the extent of time you are only given, instead to be happy along the journey.
Well that's for me. What's yours? :)
FACTAL: By the time you finish saying "I LOVE YOU", about 20,000 cells in your body will have died and been replaced with new ones.
So. I LOVE YOU. I LOVE YOU ALL that is equivalent to 40,000 now.
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